For me, it's both Thanks, that's what I was wondering. As much as I'd like to, there are just too many risks to the boy. I know every single boy that engages in sex with an adult isn't harmed, but enough of them are to make it foolish or selfish to take the chance, IMHO. I see what you mean, that it may not be harmful, or it may, so why risk the harm. That's a good, cautious, position to have.....you're being careful. Regards 194......... |