I agree, Wolfcub, that its possible to argue against sex with boys from a secular viewpoint - many boylovers do so. My point is that as a Christian, I should have some theological principles worked out for *all* my relationships, and then see how those apply to a possible relationship with boys. And then it may become more or less clear as to *why* one should keep the relationship non-sexual, or let sexual contact occur. The corollary is also true: it is possible to choose to do something that is sinful for ethical reasons... many Christians tell "little white lies" every day. Peace, Bach |