Hi d - I think it would take an extremely liberal, read lesbian, woman to consent to such an agreement. Women desire to be loved and admired by their husbands, to feel beautiful and special. Certainly this woman would have no interest in marrying a man who openly professed that he is not attracted to her. I do know of a few BLs who have been in such a marriage, and the majority have ended in divorce. None have been Christians. Not to say that I wouldn't like this kind of setup. I desire to have a mate in life and I certainly want to be a Dad. But this wont work in my case. You are not alone. Love, Ben |