Ben, Yes, I suppose I have to agree it wouldn't be right to marry her without it being a sexual relationship, except for an occasional conception... Keep praying! I suppose the lesson I'm coming away with for others of us is whether if I ever get a girlfriend who I'm attracted to at first, will it soon wear off, and end up like you are? I don't know, but I need to remind myself that it might. Whatever happens, though, I'm realising more and more the need to have good friends, both male and female, as I go through life. With Christian love, Jules |