Whoa - you're making far too many assumptions here
Submitted by Forgiven on April 27 2002 18:36:45
In reply to please help submitted by Christopher on April 27 2002 15:01:33
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1) That we are in favour of male - male sex at all 2) That we are in favour of boy - boy sex 3) That we would encourage you to start looking for a young friend at your age 4) That you are a BL - i.e. with an age of attraction that is much less than your own age. At 16 it is hard to tell; so you prefer boys younger than you at the moment; but how much younger? There's a real danger that you'll get into a habit of relating to much younger kids when you can still relate to your peers as well. And you've not said anything about your faith either - which is the main reason for the existance of this board, rather than the secular ones that our links lead to. On the other hand you're as young as one of our other regulars, so don't feel you've got to go.... And as someone who got badly emotionally scarred by the experience of being outed in a homophobic environment at your age, I'm pleased you've got the possibility of meeting now others who've been there! And the answer to your question - no, I don't think there is an easy way to identify other gay boys. Hmm - that may all sound a bit harsh; I hope you find us people who can make a positive contribution to your life. I've found this group a major support and encouragement. But I'm less than entirely convinced we're right for you.... on the other hand, it's always nice to have new people to get to know! |
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