Re: please help
Submitted by Ben on May 2 2002 07:23:03
In reply to please help submitted by Christopher on April 27 2002 15:01:33
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Hi Christopher - I'll give an answer here that hasn't been given yet: First of all, this site is specifically aimed at men who are attracted to young boys. While some might also be gay, the issue of discussion is around the challenges of being attracted to children....something which is obviously not well tolerated in our society. In addition, this is a Christian forum, meaning that everyone here either professes to be a Christian, is interested in Christianity in some way, or is interested in discussing boylove within the context of Christianity. Okay, so it puts your question a bit out of the realm of what we discuss here. As a Christian, my advise to you would be to focus on being a kid. Find things that you love to do, build great friendships with boys and with girls, get involved in sports or music or art, if possible, get involved at church (if that is something of interest to you) concentrate on getting your schoolwork done. You have your whole life to worry about sex and sexuality. Yes, I know that this message is contrary to what you see around you. Sex is WAY overplayed and overrated.....believe me I spent my whole childhood being obsessed with it. But you will regret nothing more than you will regret having missed your childhood because you were so overwhelmed with sexual pursuit. Your interest in boys MIGHT fade over time, particularly if you don't allow yourself to be obsessed with it. And if it doesn't then at least you will be a well rounded person who can deal with it. I'm sure this isn't the answer that you were looking for, but it's the only one I'll offer. Remember, this is coming from a guy who was once sitting in your shoes and knows how you feel. I've been there. You are not alone. Love, Ben |
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