Hi FOD - We've talked here and there about superficial things. We are trying to stay friends. Still, the last time I saw her she was very busy with kids, friends and all kinds of fun stuff that it LOOKED like she is dealing much better than I was. Alot of my social life was a 'couples' social life. In the absence of that, it is alot harder to make plans with people. Yeah, I can have a beer with my guy friends....I definately appreciate that, but the days of neighborhood BBQs seem to be on hold right now. Sigh. Thanks for asking though. You are not alone. Love, Ben |