Welcome to CBF, confused, If a heterosexual man is out somewhere and sees a cute girl, doesn't he naturally want to look and enjoy her sensuous beauty? Isn't this also looking with lust? As heterosexual males it seems that sexual thoughts automatically come into their minds as they observe cute girls. Isn't that true? So their dilemma is no greater nor smaller than yours. Lust is lust. This is true for a single heterosexual male as well as a married one. When this happens to you, ask for God's forgiveness, the same as a heterosexual should do. Don't beat yourself up for having lustful thoughts just because you are a boylover. God does not look upon one sin as any greater than another. Read Matthew 5:27-28. This applies to men and women, single and married. I hope this helps ~ Andy |