Thanks for that thought curter. I get a physical response to boys too - even just looking at them sometimes if they are particularly cute. It has worried me. Do I want to have sex with them when it happens? I don't think so, especially if they are quite young. I do not want to harm a boy ever, and from what I have read, doing anything sexy with a boy can result in emotional damage, even if they seem to want it. It is good to know that others get woodies without necessarily wanting to abuse the boy sexually. I suppose some will say I should never look at a boy, but I suppose a lifetime of attraction is hard to break - and anyway, an attractive lady also catches my eye - and I guess anyone who is attractive or cute can attract the most staid of Christians if they are being honest - but surely that is not a sin! |