Re: Curiuos
Submitted by BillBo on 2002-08-1 10:55:30, Thursday
In reply to Curiuos submitted by drew on 2002-07-31 22:59:54, Wednesday
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I have pondered on this one and been asked about it by counsellors but have never come up with an adult who behaved sexually towards me. What I think was more significant was the lack of a father and the fact that my grandfather who I loved dearly died when I was 11 - the age I began sexual contacts with other boys at school - and the age I find most attractive today. Also I was at a all-boys boarding school from 8 till 16 and my mother and others instilled into me the sin of sex with the opposite sex before marriage - other boys were safe as far as that was concerned to my mind. I am sure that was not the message that I was supposed to have received though. So molestation was not an influemnce on me. Infact I am sure that if a man who was like a dad to me had wanted to have sex with me,I would have been only too pleased when I was in my early teens - I don't mean anal - I have never liked the idea of that personally. I have a question myself, but maybe this is no the place to ask. This is to any of you who read this indulged in man-boy or boy-boy sex as a boy. Do you think it has adversely affected your adult life? I am not talking about rape or aggressive non-consenting sex, but the end result of what was a loving relationship. Is psychological damage inevitable? Bill |
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