I have never been molested either. Perhaps I experienced a lack of father figure, too. My father was there and was not bad, but I had very little physical contact with him, he seldom played with me etc. However, it's difficult to state that this is the reason why I am a BL. I mean, this could explain my emotional attraction towards boys, but where did I get the sexual part of my attraction from? Furthermore, I have a little brother (3 years younger than me) who has always been a sort of "Casanova" or "Don Juan" (heterosexual, of course), and we had the same father and the same mother! Everything considered... it's still a mistery. Greetings WP |