Re: my questions
Submitted by nog on 2002-08-18 10:08:34, Sunday
In reply to my questions submitted by Identifying on 2002-08-10 10:45:49, Saturday
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Why do you stay away from boys?. you have said yourself that you will never molest them! So why deprive yourself....and him... of each others company?.The gratification you get from just being there for a boy you love...and that loves you...is as powerful as any you would get from sexual contact. it is a more rewarding feeling...you feel good about yourself. part of the christian message if i'm not mistaken is "love thy neighbour". it's also about helping people. who better to help than a young friend. love is not about sex...just because you love some-one dont mean you want to jump in bed beside them. my advice to you is quite simple....go find that young friend you've wanted all these years...i can guarantee you that young friend will be waiting for some-one like you a long time too!.I'm talking from experience here. my first yf i made was 12 when we first met....he's 18 now...starting his own familly..and still includes me in every aspect of his life.guess how that makes me feel?. bloody marvelous thats what!. to be asked to be the godfather of your yf's child...thats making me proud....to be told that if i'm half as good to this child as i was to my yf's the child would want for nothing.....that makes me feel arrrrgh...i dunno..how can i explain the feeling of pride and happiness and goodness that wells up in me everytme i think about it.I giuess god does work in strange ways...because these events have occured thru a very difficult patch in my life....I guess god is easing some of the burden of my difficulty with at least some goodness. Sorry for the long post..but it just annoys me when i hear bl's advocating that they keep their distance from boys. by doing so they are giving credibility to the child advocates argument that we are dangerous predators and cant be trusted around children. if we cant trust ourselves oround kids then how can we expect others to trust us? if you are a true christian...and more importantly a TRUE bl...u will never EVER harm a boy. remember one thing....that in every relationship that works...sex is only a small part of it..what i trying to say is that for there to be a good relationship sex does NOT have to be present! Dude you are missing out on so much by not allowing a boy to become part of your life and you a part of his. God made u Bl...so its his will that you are the way you are. Bl does not have to be the devils work.how is love wrong?the bible..the gospels,the koran...practically every religion teaches and advocates love "suffer the little children to come onto me" think about it! your friend in bl nogster |
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