Hi Mark Instinctively I agree with you. I suspect that being afraid of being around boys is something imposed on us from outside. It is only in the last few years that I have had that reluctance - especially when I know there are people around who know that I am BL. But I am refusing to isolate myself completely, although it would be difficult to develop that mmuch of a relationship with a yf when my wife is steadfastly against me having anything to do with children at all. |