Have you ever observed (or been in) a loving relationship between an adult and a child that included a sexual element? I visited some bl friends a few years back and got to spend time hanging out with them and their yfs. From observing the dynamics of their relationship, from seeing the mutual trust and love, that special bond they had. It became obvious to me that the stuff they did behind closed doors was truly irrelevant, here were two happy souls delighting in each other's company. I used to believe that that was wrong, but since that day, I find it extremely difficult to say that such happiness is wrong. |