and agree a way forward over it - and stick with it. His dad's the person who has most got to deal with it - and you've got to back him to the maximum extent. But as Curter says there is a question about where the money went - it's not that easy you can't just blow that much. And somehow you need to get across that you still want him in your life - that the relationship hasn't been blown away as a result of this..... Here's praying that it works out. |