Re: accountability
Submitted by drew on 2002-09-14 19:50:39, Saturday
In reply to Re: accountability submitted by curter on 2002-09-13 21:46:18, Friday
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Do you feel attracted to men or just boys? If the answer to this question is boys why take the chance of ruining the love/friendship that you and he had, if he finds out now 15 years later that you where attracted to him sexually when he was a boy it could be hard for him to beleive that your love/friendship was genuine and not just lust. Second question do you know for a fact that he is gay and that he will receive your advances? If not the answer that I gave for the first fits here also. Because of your statement, "I just don't know what I want or expect after all these years. I am so mixed up." I feel you are just grasping for some type of love and affection. How long has it been since you really felt loved, not sexually but emotionally? I cannot say that this man is not the one nor can I say he is, but I do know that you must first love yourself before you can love others. I'll be praying for God to give you peace,love and guidance. Love in Christ, drew |
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