Having been in an environment with 3 brothers (who are yf's), sex is usually the subject of conversations, seconded only by soccor, computer games & occasionally Pokemon. It is a natural part of growing up & to be honest if you heard some of the things that Teddiursa comes out with & he's still 11, you'd be taken a-back. But talk to him about the subject, if you feel comfortable with it. My yf's Metro & Ginger found it a great comfort talking to me about sex, even if the subject matter was extreme to say the least & because I listen & am not judgemental, I took things as they came. I've also seen a few things that would shock many, but that's off the record & another story, but it is all part of growing up, so I wouldn't worry too much. When you mentioned him wanting to work in a strip club, I hope that he was refering to a form of bar work, which can bring in a lot of money, rather than being a part of the act himself when he grows up (I hope not anyway). Take care Curter & keep in touch with your progress. Best regards Halo |