Christian Boylove Forum

Re: A..... is back


Submitted by drew on 2002-09-29 09:22:40, Sunday
In reply to A..... is back submitted by curter on 2002-09-29 08:16:13, Sunday


>The question is can two men love eachother this way and not be hurting their walk with God?

Depends on what you mean by "this way", If it is like a big brother little brother realtionship I would say No, but based on the fact that you said "He does not seem to get sexually aroused by this attn and I am able to keep mine in check." I would have to say that only you and God know the answer.


>Will this make him unsure of himself as a male?

I think that since he has gone through puberty he knows what he wants. I don't think that your affection towards him will cause him to be unsure of himself especially since he is still open to receiving it from you. I'm sure that if it ever becomes and issue he will pull away. At least all the yf's I've had did. I must admit I have never heard of a 16 y.o asking for that type of attention from another man nor have I heard of puberty coming so late.

Love in Christ,
drew


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