An interesting case
Submitted by Halo on 2002-09-30 05:32:05, Monday
In reply to A..... is back submitted by curter on 2002-09-29 08:16:13, Sunday
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"A" seems to have complete trust in you, with a view that you can do nothing to hurt him. Tyrogue went through puberty at 10 he almost had an adult build at 11, but that didn't stop him being affectionate, when we were together. He sat on my lap in front of Gligar's mum on his 13th birthday, he was very relaxed & nothing sexual ever happened between us. It wasn't that kind of relationship & it never came to mind either, but I did probe things with him, like asking what if someone did something to you. The answer was very blunt "that person would be dead & 6ft under, before the police even knew about it". His people took the law into their own hands on many occasions. That was enough to dispel any thoughts. To answer your question about affection then. Try not to refuse it at all, if you can control your feelings, then their shouldn't be a problem with it. Enjoy these moments, cause these will be the things that you will treasure for the rest of your life. I often received hugs from an older friend of Tyrogue & Gligar, who I helped at the same time. He was 14 & lived with his dad, who was fairly strict & he hated him. This kid surprised me that he accepted affection at such an age & with his build, so it's not uncommon. The note that he's emotionally immature should also be good reason for continuing to show him affection for as long as he wants it. These things do come to an end, when Tyrogue no longer wanted affection from me, it hurt (I was only 21 at the time), it felt like my heart had been ripped out. So do enjoy your time together & I hope I haven't upset you with this paragraph. Please keep in touch. Lv Halo |
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