Christian Boylove Forum

something i would like to share with all of you


Submitted by boylover75 on 2002-10-25 06:10:52, Friday


i have met a wonderful 10 year old boy on the internet. he told me that he fell in love with another boy at around the age of 7. he is a suprisingly open boy and said he has experienced love with another boy in more ways than one including, believe it or not, sexually. i emailed him and asked him what his opinions were on boylove and the following is what he had to say. i do not know if he is a christian. i will ask him the next time i talk to him. anyway, here is what he had to say:



Well, my opinion is that it all depends on the boy. For me, I don't think it would affect me having sex with someone, maybe because something in my head opened up and made me quite empathetic to things around me. I guess I became aware of my surroundings and what was going on since my parents divorced. I guess that affected me somehow. I don't know. The point is, I would very much enjoy having sex with someone, if they loved me back, particularly with a boy.

But I've realized that not all boys are like this. Some just grow up not really knowing what love is when I do think that it is a fact that boys can experience love the way older people do. I think that society has degrated children to a level of true infancy where all adults, or most, think that children are not capable of true love the way they think love is. So many children don't understand those concepts of love only because they have been somewhat "retarded" in that sense of emotions.

It's kinda like reading. I like to compare it with reading to make it more understandable. You take a child, you don't teach him how to read, he/she is going to have a hard time learning how to read when he/she is older. Same thing with relationships and sexual feelings. Society doesn't really allow that to happen to children until they are up to the teenage years, or older, and they get so confused with their feelings and cant control them that they go running around having sex, catching aids, getting pregnant and so on. But on the other hand, I think teaching them about sex, and if the world wasn't the ignoramous place it is, allow them to explore freely among different sexes, then I don't think these things might happen as much.

So, with experience, bl'ers will find that there will be those boys that know love, and others that wont, or will get confused, or think it a burden by it. We just have to find that right boy.

Personally, I have only been with one person, he was my age, and I've known him for a few years since we were young. But he moved this summer, and I really miss him. We both loved each other, and I can safely say that he has not changed me in any way that is negative or me to him.






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