what proof do we have that it would mess with the kid? i think it depends on the kid and what he is told by the older man about relationships. and i think that if there was romantic love between me and a boy, it would be a very special thing and the boy would know that-how do you know it would mess with his head? again, what proof do you have??? sure, if you have some pervert out there who forces a kid into sex i can see that messing with his head but not if it's because of love. and sadly, those are the people who give us boylovers a bad name-the ones who abuse and molest children, not the ones who love them. well, this is all i have to say about this-for now. with love and God's blessing to all, boylover75 |