Christian Boylove Forum

Re: this is how i feel and nothing will change that


Submitted by drew on 2002-11-10 21:03:30, Sunday
In reply to this is how i feel and nothing will change that submitted by boylover75 on 2002-11-9 00:31:59, Saturday


I copied these statements of yours from 2 separate posts. There are so many things in these statements that go against the word of God I do not even know where to start.

>i feel that if a man and a boy really, truly love each other a lot, i mean a LOT-they truly, emotionally love each other and REALLY REALLY care for each other-then there is nothing wrong with sex as a way of showing their love for each other.

God from the beginning NEVER ordained man/boy sexual relationships.

>i also think that the man should teach the boy about God above and leading a good Christian life.

I am a bl and I know the struggles that bl's face and I admit I don't always hit the mark when it comes to following God. But for you to think that God would in any way be accepting of a man/boy sexual relationship you need to spend a little more time with God and less time "looking at pictures and enjoying them sexuallly."

>It is not realistic to expect the boy to make that long term commitment when he is so young" you don't just love a boy and one day tell him you're not going to love him because he's reached a certain age. you let the boy know that you are a boylover and are not interested in people over a certain age and, because of that, you will not be able to love him all of his life but you will always be his friend.

I think this is where many people miss the mark. The Bible plainly states that love NEVER fails therefore you cannot just turn your love on and off because of the age of the person, what you are refering to in this statement is LUST not love. Since lust is a flesh issue you cannot say that you ever Loved (biblical definition) the boy. Let's pray that God never decides that he doesn't love you any more because you are to old. God clearly speaks out against homosexual acts, not homosexuals. What type of acts could you and a boy perform together that would not be a mirror image of two homosexual men engaging in sex?

Love in Christ,
drew


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