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Submitted by Jake on 2002-11-10 21:23:43, Sunday
In reply to another thing submitted by boylover75 on 2002-11-9 16:15:17, Saturday
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I'm not one to normally give advice but I will try (even though i suck at it). I read a few of your messages and some others feedback, one thing that i have to agree with is not to engage in sexual activity with the one you love. Through sex it could bring havoc and hell to yourself and the boy (like what J said in earler posts.) A recomendation I can give when you do finally fall in love with the "right one" treat it good but try not to spoil him (read old muddyfox posts (i think i got the name right)) a childs ego is like thin hot glass which can be molded into somthing Marvilous with high morals a good mind and a life through got if you will. I read, watched and studied only a few cases of child sexual abuse and is SOME cases when its all said and done the boy (at this time who is an adult or young adult) has haterid tords the once lover and may seek a type of revenge eather through the police of physical methods depending on the mental health of the person. Some other cases result in suicide feeling like an outcase becasue of a different life style even if they appear happy they may be slowly dying inside from guilt that they can never express other than the lover. I am in no way trying to talk you out of anything im only trying to express my opinion on the matter i understand the feelings of wanting to when i was younger but like most others here i want to serve and protect... I have no idea how that came out I hope it was helpful in a way and not insulting like i said im out of my gord when i give advice I suck.. this was probably no more helpful than someone cussing you so hey take it as you will... Yours Truly, Jake |
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