I want you to REALLY think about that statement. I'm not trying to attack you. I simply want to get you to think, very hard about this. Just because you "feel" that sex with a boy is how you show him love, does that make it so? My Grandfather felt that by buying me stuff, he didn't have to say "I love you" or give me a hug, because buying me stuff was his way of showing me love. Now I know it's a lot stronger in our case because sex is intended for showing love. That part is right. But ask yourself, should parents have sex with their kids, to show them love? Does that mean that parents don't love their kids more than anything in the world if they don't? Would it seem to follow that sex has a specific context in which to be a display of love? If sex was a universal way to show love, it would have to, then, be shared between parents and children, because that is about the strongest bond there is. |