Re: You seem to be more sexual
Submitted by Reason Filled on 2002-11-12 18:38:23, Tuesday
In reply to Re: You seem to be more sexual submitted by Sophie on 2002-11-12 17:31:43, Tuesday
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No problem. Misunderstandings happen all the time on here :) I must say that a female BL does raise my eyebrows. Not in suspicion, but in curiosity. You see, I have learned a lot about my condition by studying my personal feelings and reading others that share my feelings for boys. It would almost be idiotic to not put some emphasis on our relationships with adult males as kids, or the lack there of. I can almost feel the little boy inside me smile as I show affection to my yf, as if he were saying "That is what I missed, now I can see what it is like." And the farther I go in learning about my feelings, the more the puzzle fits together to form quite an obvious picture. Just like I can't speak for all homosexuals, I can't speak for all BL's, however, I'm willing to bet the farm that the vast majority of them are a product of their childhood. I've seen different causes, however the common denominator is that there is a cause. Some are searching for love that they never had as a child. Some BL's never matured mentally and aren't capable of socially, or sexually functioning with other adults. Some BL's were molested by other BL's and now are proving to themselves that what happened to them was indeed love, by acting out the same way with other boys, out of what they think is love. Some BL's are just a product of their continual sexual quest to find something new. The list goes on and on and on. I classify myself as one who is searching for the male love I never received as a child. Do you see any cause for your condition, or do you believe that you just were born the way you are? In Christ, RF |
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