This needs to be said (even though I dont want to)
Submitted by Drifter on 2002-11-13 12:57:51, Wednesday
In reply to Summary of last few days submitted by Halo on 2002-11-13 11:18:03, Wednesday
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It isn't often that I feel strongly enough about an issue in someone else's life that I feel I can give them direct advice on what they need to do. But this is one of those rare occasions. I strongly feel that you need to cut off these relationships completely. What Dakota said in a previous post (http://www.cblf.org/messages/19499.htm) is true. This latest example illustrates it perfectly. Here you are with these friends of your friends (people whom you barely know) and one of them makes the statement "I'll get you a date with my step-brother (gay13yo)". Why did he make such a statement? logic tells me that someone told him that you are a pedophile and that you are easy to get money from by exploiting that weakness. It is obvious that everyone knows you have such sexual interests. Pichu knows, Ele knows, ginger knows, and their friends know. It is very likely that Ele allows physical affection only to appease you (and to get money out of you later). This being the case, even if you mean well what you are actually teaching Ele is that it is ok to prostitute himself for money. I dont mean that you are having sex with him. But you are promoting that he allow some physical intimacy in exchange for money and your friendship. You claim the massage and other intimate moments were non-sexual, but from past posts we know that Ele had weird feelings later about the massage and thus does consider it sexual. You are teaching these young men to prostitute themselves, to allow their bodies to be touched and massaged in exchange for money. You are also teaching them to use people for money and to take advantage of their weaknesses. Are these things that you would like them to learn? Continue down this path and you will be no better than someone who goes out and gets a boy prostitute off the street. In some ways, you may be even worse because you picked perfectly normal young men and turned them into little more than prostitutes. Yes, Im being harsh in this post, but it is a harsh reality and one that I dont think you are going to admit unless it is presented as the harsh reality that it is. Take a good look at what you are doing. I believe your relationship with Ele, Pichu, and their friends is fubar (f__ked up beyond all repair) by a long shot. Cut your losses, cut them off and end the friendships. Take some time for yourself, give yourself time to analyze all of these things and to find out what went wrong. Take some time to get closer to God and have him lead you in your relationships. We will be here for you when you do that, come back and get whatever support from us you need, you wont be alone in this. But please end these relationships now and dont delay the inevitable. Don't go back to friendships with boys until you are ready. [Anonymizer] [NetHUSH] [Megaproxy] [subDIMENSION Anonymizit] [Linkbeat] [freeProxy] [@nonymouse] [BlackCode] |
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