Reading between the lines, if I may, you talk about envy of people you know who have sex with kids aned how much you to have that with your YF yourself. Sorry if I sound too harsh but that is not love, that is sex. I see nothing wrong with consentual sex between adults but an intergenerational relationship is never equal. I have seen those and in all cases there has been resentment or the younger party has capitulated with spiritual decline as result. You can have sex with him but it isn't the sin-factor that is interesting but the deep irrevocable harm you WILL cause him. I won't preach, it is your choice, but know well what you choose. BTW, I know the examples you speak of and none of them appears healthy in my eyes. Questioner |