Putting recent events behind me (trip to Dad's)
Submitted by Halo on 2002-12-10 08:49:24, Tuesday
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Went home-home yesterday, visited my Dad, step-mum, the boys & my sister. I was greeted with the usual hugs & how are you's cause it had been a long time since I was last down. The eldest (11) still small for his age, has been doing really well at school. His school have almost irradiacted bullying & money has been replaced by a card with a computer chip, that when topped up, allows you to withdraw sweets from a vending machine. He has dealt well with the first bullying attempt by a fellow pupil, Dad told him not to stand for any nonsence & raising his voice to this agressor forced the boy to flee. The younger two are still doing okay, the 9yo is progressing better at school, but still has trouble controlling his temper, often hitting first & asking questions later, but his school work is improving. The youngest brother (6) is still well advanced for his years, still progressing at a startlingly fast rate & he provided a possible BM yesterday. Which I shall report shortly. My sister (2) has grown & recognised me straight away, she came walking over with arms out for me to pick her up & cuddle. Aparently she won't let anyone near her that she doesn't recognise, she won't even let my younger brother (28) pick her up, so it was something of a privalege. The BM, well I was sitting on the sofa with my step-mum & she was sharing her pretsels with me. The youngest, seated on my lap, insisted on taking them from my hand & feeding them one by one into my mouth. This went on for about 10 mins or so. His other trick was reaching up his right hand & stroking my hair whilst sitting with me, perhaps returning the favour. I mentioned briefly that I'd been helping Elekid to my step-mum, who without knowing the full details, instantly recognised the problem created by his Step-dad & offered the same advise as everyone else to STEER CLEAR, cause in her eyes, the COPS can get anyone to confess to something that hasn't happened & I could be in a lot of trouble!!! I mentioned this in a post at another forum yesterday, but this seemed to open my eyes properly to everything that everyone is saying. I could loose my family through any further action on Elekid's behalf. Perhaps this needs to be stressed to Pichu as to why I cannot see him either, cause he seemed to think he's immune to investigation. I also found out more about my former neighbour (my abuser), he's had all of his children taken away from him. Only the eldest remains, he's 18 & has recoved from most of the emotional truma he suffered as a child (reasons unknown). I haven't seen this boy in over 9 years & am anxious to meet him again. As well as my neighbour, but I won't mention the abuse at all to him, cause I know that it was inherited from his own father, when he was alive. (His father was an evil man, who subjected him to many evil acts in the presence of his mother & goodness knows what in private, when he was a kid.) I left for the trip home, with a xmas list, surprising my 11yo brother, by picking him up to cuddle him, before I went. He didn't think I'd be able to lift him any more. Halo |
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