Subtle physical abuse: boy comes crying from school; his classmates beat him up; the boy lies in the arms of the adult, trying to get relief from his pain. The adult first kisses him softly on his head for a while (which is thankfully accepted by the boy), but then makes his way down the neck to the boy's chest... ==> not a boylover I'm this... Until the acceptance part. After that, it isn't me anymore. Daze is my name, comforting my YF is my game. I could've gone "3rd base" that Sweet Sunday, but I didn't. I love him, but not on a sexual basis. In my book: Pedophile = someone talking advantage of weaknesses of the kid, just to get him into bed. Boylover = Someone who loves and cares about the kid on a non-sexual basis, and just wants to look after him, making him happy. |