I knew I was attracted to boys pretty much my whole life. When I finally discovered that I wasn't just afflicted with this horrible condition that only monsters have was when I started reading sites like this. I realized that there were far more out there like me than I had thought. If u are no longer one then how did u overcome your desire? Well, I'm still a boylover, but I "overcome my desire" on almost a daily basis. Just because I desire something doesn't mean I must act on it. IF still are one: are you trying to change or are you comfortable as you are? Well, I wouldn't say I was comfortable, since I still must fight my desires, but I have accepted that this is the way I am, and probably always will be. Is it ok to be a boylover? Sure, unless you use that as an excuse to exploit boys. In Christ, RF |