Re: realizing you are a boylover
Submitted by laserbrain on 2003-03-21 00:37:22, Friday
In reply to realizing you are a boylover submitted by love4life on 2003-03-20 17:58:34, Thursday
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I've been attracted to boys for as long as I can remember. I used to consider myself a homosexual but realized in high school that that label didn't really fit b/c my attractions were toward boys who were significantly younger than me so I guess you could say that I realized it in high school. If u are no longer one then how did u overcome your desire? I quit trying to stop being a boylover. I felt like I was sinning by merely being attracted to boys. In my attempts to overcome the attraction, I found myself in a state of depression. I don't think God wants me depressed over it so I stopped my attempts. I feel that the only part that is sinful is the lustfulness associated with it. Is it ok to be a boylover? Many people beleive that we made a choice to be pedophiles. I don't remember anyone asking me what sexual orientation i'd like to be. If it was a choice then I would not be a boylover, but i do realize that it is not the way God intended. As a christian, I understand that it is necessary to stay out of habitual sin so I strive to avoid acting on my desires. As long as we are living for Christ and dying to ourselves daily, I don't see a problem with being a boylover. |
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