Hello Gunner64, Read some of the posts here, and you'll see you've come to the right place. We are all struggling with our BL feelings, and are trying to channel them in a way that is pleasing to God. Most of us agree that there is nothing we can do to change those feelings, so we attempt to channel them to God's glory. By sharing here we hope to learn, with God's help, how to do that. Welcome, and God bless you, Andy |