hello pastor there doesn't seem to be anyone else around right now.so I will try to help you if I can.if your feeling that maybe there right,and you really can turn someone into a gay.I would say search your own heart,every one of us that has discovered these feelings within us knows that no one event or person caused us to be this way.I'm a bl that hasn't always been true to my faith (I don't even attend church anymore)I can't be who I am there,which is a shame ,because I cant be who I am in the world either.anyway plaese don't blame yourself for there ignorance.you say your a pastor maybe you should pray for them,I don't know.you say your not bitter,that is very admirable.I know i would be mad as hell,but don't follow my example. best wishes lurker BTW I have found that when I lose somthing important to me, something better comes along later.sorry about you losing your friend though, |