Sorry, thanks, I should probably have mentioned all of the above, since the members of Healing Together are very sensitive about this. I first arrived at AReASON at the time a loved boy was posting there, and fireworks were flying. I believe that Healing Together, like most other recovering offenders groups, uses the term "offender" loosely to include anyone who fears they might offend, though obviously sexual abuse, rather than pedophilia in general, is the focus of the discussion. Incidentally, by "off limits," d is only referring to whether one can post; all of the forums can be read by anyone. Heather |