Heather, I dropped all e-mail lists about the end of July 97. So, as best as I recall, I was part of Bridges-Across discussions from Jan to Jul 97, which was before B-A lists. I don't think boylove was included in any of those discussions, but I could be wrong. In 96 on a list which both maggie and participated, there were two discussions of much the same matter, but much different in tone. The first was an "age difference thread" introduced when a mother met her son's older "friend." As I recall, but haven't verified, the second started several months later as a "pedophile" thread and had a much more negative tone. Not sure that I answered your question, but... Ray |