Hello Fish, one of the thing I am trying to suppress is the urge to call you something condescending like "small fry" or "little one" :) I'm glad to meet you and I hope we can be helpful in your walk with God, and you with us. You said you "have strong convicions that it is wrong to be a boylover", and lust is certainly wrong. What you can do is transform that lust into love. Then what you have is, well, love! and that is good. Like, if you see some boy you like, you might be tempted to start think sexual things in your mind or something. Instead what you can do is make a positive step - start talking to him, do something for him. That way you won't have time for thinking the wrong things, you'll be too busy doing the right things. You can make yourself into a blessing for him, and he will have found a friend, and you will have found a friend. God be with you :) F.O.D. |