Re: depends o the kid....
Submitted by Chris on August 08 1999 at 19:13:40
In reply to depends o the kid.... Submitted by Some guy in the NW (aka Jesus lover) on August 05 1999 at 10:27:36
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Hi Jesus Lover, Personally, I liked the "Old Guy" who said there is nothing wrong withsex and we should do it every day. He might just have something there....ha ha ha. Seriously, though, I had a similar experience with my one and only (so far) YF when he was 10 or 11 yrs. old. We were camping with my brothers and he (I will call him "L") and I were having a great time together. One night while we were sitting around the camp fire and it was just L and myself there, he was sitting on my lap (as ussual, he loved to be very close to me), he started kissing me hard and long on the lips! He had never done this before so it took me quite by supprise. He did this a couple of times until I finally told him something along the lines that it was hurting my lips. I didn't want to do this with him, not because I didn't actually desire it, but because I didn't feel it was the proper thing to be doing with him. He quit kissing me like that and we never did get into an involved discussion about it but it was a little unnerving at the time. I think, personally, that some boys (or maybe ALL boys, I don't know) are VERY curious about different aspects of sex and sexuality, even gay sex. I think it's normal for them to go through this in thier lives, even if they are not gay. That is why I think we, as boylovers, have such a demanding responsibility twords any boy(s) we might have a relationship with. I'm so grateful that God has always "been there" for me to help me through certain times and trials like these. Your brother in Christ, Chris |