Heather - I did live that life on boychat for about two straight years. It completely dominated my life. Yet I needed what boychat gave me, and I am thankful for those two years. I made many good friends, and found acceptance among a group of peers that I didn't know existed. I consider myself 'graduated' now from boychat and I do not agree with many of the moral precepts of most people there, so I choose to not participate there anymore. I can understand you wanting to move on in life. Heather, I realized that I had many years when I got old and gray to be on the net when my body began to fail me. In my early thirties, I need to be out living life. I can relate to your desire to do this as well. Please come back and visit. Your presence was very valuable here and to me. Love, Ben |