Hi KILROY, Since you and Terror Bear are asking for support, I thought it might be a good time to mention our consultation next Spring. Last year we had our first consultation in June in Montreal, Canada. Here is the statement we made. I think arrangements for this year's get together are underway. Tentative plans point to an East Coast USA gathering. It will be a time to share our common struggles and get advice. We also hope to interact with some friendly non-BL Christians and share our journeys with them. As for local support groups -- I don't really know of any. There are ex-gay groups in many centers as well as Christian men's groups. BLers are obviously a bit reluctant to make themselves widely known. There are several groupings that do exists, especially from friendships that started at Boychat. Do continue to post -- hopefully you will find some support! Peace of Christ, Bach |