My response to your response :)
Submitted by Bach on October 24 1999 at 15:27:18
In reply to Reponse to Mr Bach from another message board! Submitted by Pamella (BlackWolf) on October 24 1999 at 12:19:14
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Why do you think I am defensive? Because I left a lengthly message on the board? Do you need to refrain from being around women because they might encourage you to have sex with men? You say you have studied the "minds of boylovers for years". Have you ever known one? It is interesting to note that people who have gotten to know me personally as a boylover do not see me as a monster. I am not assuming that you see me that way, and in fact I enjoyed the response you have written. I agree that control and abuse of an innocent victim are important things to discuss. And I might ask what the most effective protection against a child molester would be? Since, as you have mentioned, it is not possible to know all potential abusers, it is interesting for them to feel like they can share their struggle without fear of persecution. And this is exactly what Christian Boylove Forum is all about. Boylovers who choose not to seek out a gay relationship are probably not attracted to men. It would be like suggesting you seek out a sexual relationship with a boy (assuming that it was not appropriate to have sex with a man)-- it wouldn't work as you are not attracted to that person. Finally, you wrote: Most of the time the people that are "Boylovers" whom come to this board feel the need to convinces us about there sexual preference for young boys is not wrong." I would like to make a distinction between sexual attraction and acting on that attraction. Is my sexual preference right or wrong? Have you ever tried to change your preference? I believe that acting on my sexual urges in a way that harms a young person is not what God wants for my life. Thanks for the opportunity to chat. Peace of Christ, Bach |