Hi, You might want to choose a nick so that I know what you call you :) I'm curious to know at what point you discovered your attraction to boys. It almost sounds like you grew up, got married, became a Christian and then started to like boys. How much of a role has this attraction played in your life? In terms of your own children, I wouldn't worry too much about this. Usually people develop a barrier of attraction to their own children. Your temptation should be no worse than a man has to his 16 year old daughter. You might need to use some restraint with your future son's friends, but that seems to be way off. I would focus now on how this might be affecting your life right now. Do you think of boys when you have sex? Do you masterbate thinking about boys? Ben |