Healing Together (check CBF Links on the main page) is for offenders, would-be-offenders who want to avoid offending, and victims of all types. alt.abuse.offender-recovery (or is it a.a.recovery.offender?) also works, but use www.deja.com to avoid the spam (including porn spam). BoyChat (also in CBF Links) *may* be helpful but it may make him feel it is "ok" to cross the legal line - you know your friend well enough to make that call, I don't. As faith said, PRAY for him constanty. You can be his first-line defense against him getting into situations which are or appear to be compromising or dangerous. Since he's been "found out" he needs to avoid situations which would cause other people to go into "lynch mob" mode - that fact will depress him (well, it would depress me). Your being there for him can help him accept this. -David ("d") |