It would be more helpful to you and him if we were more aware of what exactly you mean by "found out". A person who has been "discovered" to be a boylover by friends who would not be likely to tell others is one thing, but a boylover who is "found out" while engaging in "questionable" acts is something else entirely. And both will require different approaches. So, can you give us a little more info without compromising anything? Love |