I borrowed it from a gay friend who bought it at a gay bookstore. I can't believe any Christian bookstore around here would carry it. They are too conservative, and would think that Mel White is of the devil. BTW, a lot of what he writes in Chapter 9 is *extremely* problematic for BLers. He claims that to be who you really are, you must experience sex with someone to whom you are oriented. He also says that for most people, it is impossible and unreasonable to be celibate. Mark |