Hi, Val! Glad to see you're still around. When I read Scott's post, the thought had crossed my mind that perhaps you and his girl friend could somehow connect, either here on the board or by (anonymous) email. Although the situations aren't identical, there are bound to be similar questions and emotions that both you and his girlfriend are dealing with. Scott, what do you think? I assume that your girlfriend has already been to visit here briefly. Have you suggested to her that she spend some time here? If Val is willing to share some of her reactions, would that be a good thing? Maybe we need to start a new forum: Boylovers' Christian Girlfriends' Forum. Dirk |