Take a song for example. Some songs are a pleasure to our ears (depends on the taste of the listener), those we listen to, the others we don't. If we play a song another one who is present doesn't like, it's a matter of friendliness to stop playing it. Now take sex. Some activities are a pleasure to our senses, some not. Some persons we're attracted to, some not. With the former we would do it (provided they like the same actions), with the latter not. If we desire someone and he doesn't desire us, it's a matter of friendliness to take a "no". It could be sooo simple. |