Hi Val, Although for myself, this sort of thing just isn't possable, I know and have know some boylovers who are in or have had, very fine heterosexual relationships. Some get married and have children. They usually tend to try like crazy to hide thier feelings twords boys from thier wife or girlfriend. Some of us can have this kind of relationship, some of us cannot. Then some of us try to when we know deep in our hearts it won't work. This can be pretty tragic for both partners involved. I think it takes a lot of really honest heart-searching to know if it will work or not. Although I think that, deep down, most of us have a pretty good idea if it is going to work or not. And that's why Chris dosen't bother trying to date women....even though Chris's family and friends keep pushing him to find a wife. It does get frustrating. Your friend in Christ, Chris |