hey faith, thanks for your thoughts. i realize you might feel that your knowledge is limited, but would you consider just talking a little with my girlfriend? i think she is kind of overwhelmed right now... i have not had time to read your whole story, so am not too sure how you endedup here, but i believe that your compassion and love far outpaces any knowledge you might feel you lack. would ya mind just considering it? drop me a line if sometime you might... if you want i can tell you how to get a completely free and anonymous email account, if that is one of your worries...thanks... Scott |