Just enjoy the cuddling while you have it then! So precious are those bonds I remember having with youngins. Would give everything I own to have just one back in my life. So unconditional and fair. Boys are the warmest creatures out there. I read something once..."The man who doesn't like tobacco and boys is a fool" I like that. Just not at the same time! Can't be the reason for a youngin smoking! I had a yf that did, he was 13! I tried to get him to quit but his mother just didn't care about it. She was a basket case. But, good for the BL cause she let him go w/ me on overnight mountain trips and such. I did get him to quit dope and bring his grades up a bit. He even cut off his long locks in favor of my military cut! Such a cutie he was. Hope he is doing okay now. Yeah, you are lucky. Enjoy that indecision! Hug while you can...maybe longer! :o) Good luck BLues. |