I'm a friend of TQ....hi
Submitted by Seeking Wisdom/Triple Q (duo post) on December 07 1999 at 20:58:26
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I've been on these boards for months, looking over TQ's shoulder, trying to get an understanding and feeling for the thoughts and feelings that boylovers have. And the overall picture that comes up is that you got the true boylovers vs. the wannabes cause they don't really have the concept of love vs. the need of being loved. They don't put themselves in the kids position. God knows that i'm not trying to criticize or psychoanalyze anyone cause i'm not. This coming from a straight, heterosexual guy with two boys. I been friend with Trip for 20 years now and he finally came out to me a couple of months ago and told me about his attraction to boys and that doesn't change my perception of him at all cause that's Trip. And I would still at any point in time knowing that the boys would be in the best of hands for any length of time, they would still be safe. Now my new girlfriend on the other hand (which I stole from Trip) I wouldn't let alone with my boys. :) There is no clear solution to the problesm of boylovers/non-boylovers. What problems there is lies within the boylovers themselves. Because the frustrations the boylovrs feel is cause of what the media and government put out to the straight community. They've got this picture painted of monsters when in fact a lot of them are very caring individuals. Just me And me too! Hi everyone! Triple Q :) |